I totally agree Nelie....I was not the patient and experienced a few "Meltdowns".
You just pick yourself up ..dust yourself off..and start all over again. Just like the song says.
You can handle this Michael... you and Seth and that big extended family you have.
Onward and Upward

Marica

Caregiver to husband Pete, Dx 4/03 SCC Base of Tongue Stage IV. Chemo /Rad no surgery. Treatment finished 8/03. Doing great!