I tried to ask for details, and he just said he was NOT going to talk about it with me. End of story. Either he's very confused about how to protect my feelings, or he's a complete bastard.

Much as I love him, I want to say he's just confused about what I can handle.
Although, he's said before that he didn't want hospice because it was just to help me.
What am I supposed to "earn" by working my ass of?
I was up until almost 3 am trying to finish my day.
He has no idea what I do because he SLEEPS through it all.

CG to my husband, Matt. Dx June 2009 Stage IV Oropharengeal SCC right tonsil primary with distant metastases. Rad to neck- Surgeries to lungs- Every avail chemo - ran out of options Jan 2012, called for hospice help Feb 2012, at rest March 19, 2012.