wow sounds like me and Ron's living conditions, he stays downstairs and I stay upstairs, he eventually comes up to see me and talks a bit but goes back down. But he isn't mean to me and he isn't in the position Matt is in either. It's going to be hard, he's angry, angry at the world and you are in it and you are there so he lashes out at you. Don't take it seriously and you know what, go ahead and cry and go ahead and scream because you can and I know I would! I'd scream at him and I'd cry at him and I'd show I am also angry at what is happening to the man I married and love and there is nothing I can do in this world that can change what is happening. Only God can do that and you aren't God so don't beat yourself up. Pound your fists in the air and after you got it all out go and hold on to Matt and hug him with all your heart and cry on his shoulder and let him hold you and comfort you and if he resists hold onto him harder!

I think this is what I'd do.