Christine,
If we can't be honest on here then we are not serving the purpose for being here. Please know that our saying you are teaching us or are our hero doesn't mean we think you aren't struggling. We cry when we read your posts so we know you are living hell right now. We just want you to know that you are showing us that it can be handled and we aren't alone should this happen to us.
So glad his daughter was there to witness things first hand. That should open some eyes and make it easier on you. Physically anyway. Emotionally, just hang on. I wish I lived close by to give you a real shoulder to cry on, but I am here.
Love to you,
Kathy