I had a great visit with Matt's daughter tonight. She's really in denial though and isn't able to really embrace her Dad's condition and say all that needs said. I wish I knew how to help her.
The hospice mentioned pre-bereavement counseling, and I'll check to see if they can visit on the weekend.
She asks me how she can help, what she can "do". I don't know what to say. I feel uncomfortable asking for help with housekeeping, but I sure could use it. I guess I will have to get over my own feelings and thank God for the help he is sending us.


CG to my husband, Matt. Dx June 2009 Stage IV Oropharengeal SCC right tonsil primary with distant metastases. Rad to neck- Surgeries to lungs- Every avail chemo - ran out of options Jan 2012, called for hospice help Feb 2012, at rest March 19, 2012.