My heart is breaking for you and your husband and family Christine...I don't know if I could do it. I think I am strong but I don't think I could handle what you are going thru. I hate to say it but I think IF it ever happens with Ron I'm sorry but he would have to go into a nursing home only because nobody is home at all with him all day except the dogs and his mom his elderly herself and his sister works full time as well as I do. I think Ron already knows this but as depressing as it sounds we need to talk about it if he doesn't know.
God Bless you Christine, as bad as this sounds, soon it will be all over for you and Matt and you all can rest peacefully once again.
OOOOOOOXXXXXX!

CG to Ron
Out of Pain 4/3/13
4/12-lung and under chin growth no treatment
1/13/12 lung biopsy
6/11 recur 6/30 resection #2 Clear margins
Clear 12/10
Surg 5/13/10 neck dis/nodes part gloss/flap R thigh all teeth out
RAD 30 8/10
DX 4/2/10 "Oral Cavity" T3NOMO
12/28/07 Non Hodg Lymph remission 7/08
passed away 4.3.15, RIP Ron, you are greatly missed