He has to request it? By any chance did you do a power of attorney thingy? I have the "power" for Ron and I'm not even married to him, you should be able to get that being his wife and all. See that's why I'm able to call docs and tell them stuff and let them know what Ron needs that he won't say anything about, and I am allowed to be told anything about him from nurses and docs. I had to sign alot of paperwork and I think Ron had to of course sign too. How would he be if you suggested this to him too? If I'm wording this wrong or calling what it is wrong feel free to correct me. But pretty sure it's POA. I don't know if cuz you are his wife that you need that though so...maybe you can ask doc for referral for hospice. You are legally I think cuz of marriage to be able to I think. Right?

CG to Ron
Out of Pain 4/3/13
4/12-lung and under chin growth no treatment
1/13/12 lung biopsy
6/11 recur 6/30 resection #2 Clear margins
Clear 12/10
Surg 5/13/10 neck dis/nodes part gloss/flap R thigh all teeth out
RAD 30 8/10
DX 4/2/10 "Oral Cavity" T3NOMO
12/28/07 Non Hodg Lymph remission 7/08
passed away 4.3.15, RIP Ron, you are greatly missed