Glad you found this thread. It's long but I recommend reading all the posts - although in doses. Personally I find that reading how others have the same peeves and have had the same exasperating experiences helps me realize it's not personal. Instead we are stereotyped as a cancer patient/victim/survivor automatically. Another reason to enjoy the OCF forum where we can be appreciated as persons. Oh, and yeah, I liked your reply to the Big C query Charm
65 yr Old Frack Stage IV BOT T3N2M0 HPV 16+ 2007:72GY IMRT(40) 8 ERBITUX No PEG 2008:CANCER BACK Salvage Surgery 25GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin Apaghia /G button 2012: CANCER BACK -left tonsilar fossa 40GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin