Walknlite - nothing to apologize for. There are just so many new people here, and it seems that no one really reads the rules of the board when they sign in, that I put that comment up there to speak to plantgirl, and as a reminder of why we have the policy for the boards. Strong spiritual beliefs help many people, but when they are used to tell someone that because you didn't do this or that, or believe like me, that you ended up with this dreaded disease, it is just wrong on so many levels.


Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.