I just have to say that we call the people who utter stupid comments-DGI's -on the widow board I go on. DGI meaning Don't Get Its. I probably was a bit of a DGI before this chapter in my life so if someone says something only mildly supid I try to let it go. I have a much lower tolerance for people in the medical profession however.


cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.