Oh Boy. Even well intentioned people stick their foot in it - sometimes repeatedly. To be charitable (and it IS Sunday), we shall assume that she was looking for some bright spot in your situation to comment on and that was the best that her feeble little brain could come up with - bless her heart! (I learned the"bless her heart" thing from some Okla friends. You can say whatever nasty thing you want about someone so long as somewhere in the sentence you state "Well bless his/her heart....") Gotta luv those Okies!!


Donna,69, SCC L Tongue T2N1MO Stg IV 4/04 w/partial gloss;32 radtx; T2N2M0 Stg IV; R tongue-2nd partial gloss w/graft 10/07; 30 radtx/2 cispl 2/08. 3rd Oral Cancer surgery 1/22 - Stage 1. 2022 surgery eliminated swallowing and bottom left jaw. Now a “Tubie for Life”.no food envy - Thank God! Surviving isn't easy!!!! .Proudly Canadian - YES, UNIVERSAL HEALTH CARE IS WONDERFUL! (Not perfect but definitely WONDERFUL)