You guys are really keeping me sane. Im so pleased that I didnt turn mean when I found out I got cancer! I was wondering why Ive been feeling so spiteful (which isnt normal for me) towards people who are uttering such meaningless words. I know that people dont know how to behave but common sense should prevail! Im fed up with people trivializing what Ive got by saying 'at least they caught it early, you will be fine' yep, doing just dandy thanks, my life has been turned upside down. Sorry whinge over!