Patty, I am so sorry. I just found this threaad and I was shocked to see what you said. I know there is little I can say or do but I am thinking of you. I'm happy your sister is there for you. Please know I am here for you whenever you need to talk.

((((((HUGS)))))))

Suzanne
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T1 SCC on right side of tongue
Age 31...27 when diagnosed
4 partial glossectomies
No chemo or radiation
Biopsy on 2/2/10-Clear
Surgery needed again...no later than April 2011
Loving life and just became a mother on 11/25/10
It's not what we CAN'T do..it's what we CAN do:)