Hey gmcraft. I have hatched a plan to deal with socializing with friends over food. See if you (or anyone) thinks it is bonkers.

I have invited two (close and understanding) couples for dinner this week. My plan is for me to do all of the cooking and serving while they socialize around the kitchen - kind of a “chefs table” setup . This way, I can cook, see my friends over dinner but hopefully diffuse the awkwardness of not being able to eat or drink. Just thinking of a bunch of small tapas type plates over the evening. I’m looking forward to it since I haven’t been able to cook or socialize much recently and this kills two birds.


Preliminary diagnosis of SqCC at base of tongue August 2, 2019.
Biopsy surgery on August 15
Confirmed sqcc from biopsy Aug 20 - hpv type 16
33 radiation treatments ended October 25, 2019.
3 (large dose) cisplatin treatments.