If I gave John ice cream, it was always part of a smoothie made with Ensure. It was to improve the taste and bring up the calories. You’re right about not consuming empty calories, but there was little else he could eat at that point. Some people on the forum, I have read, use protein powder in their smoothies. ChristineB has a recipe that is packed with calories, I think she used peanut butter. She also has a List of Easy to Swallow Foods. You can try searching for it on the forum. Really, whatever works and feels right for you, as long as you eat and not lose weight.