Theresa, I so feel for you. This must be so sad for you and you must have many, many questions as to why he won't have conventional treatment. I watched Steve have 7 weeks of treatment and not once did he seem as ill as your brian. I feel sad for Brian that he didn't give it a try and that in the end he's chosen a harder road. But it's not for me to say what he should do. I suppose he know's his own mind and trust me I know how hard it is to live with a stubborn man. But I do feel very sad for how hard this must be for you. You must be an incredibly strong woman to be able to go through this. My thoughts will be with you as you travel this painful road.

Wendy


Wife to Steve 43. DX 5 May 09. T4N2MO SCC tongue, floor of mouth, lymph nodes & jaw bone
No surgery
Teeth removed 06/07/2009
radiation 13/07/2009 x 7wks
chemo 15/07/2009 x 3 Cisplatin
last TX 28/08/2009
25/11/2009 PET-lymph node activity.
08/01/2010 CT Scan-ALL CLEAR
03/03/2010-Peg removed
01/2013 left side of Jaw removed and replaced with pectoral flap.
23/12/2020 scan show lesion in tongue
01/2021 SCC stage 3 base of tongue diagnosed
01/03/2021 chemotherapy started.