TL - Take care of yourself so you can take care of him....grab whatever time you can to relax, take a walk, read a book, pray,whatever makes you feel better. You will need it. You will also need whatever support you can get. I hope he opens up to family and friends soon. ((((TL)))) This forum is always here when you need someone. Good luck.

Cheryl


CG to H with SCC BOT T4N2cM0 dx 12/19/08, teeth removed pre-tx; Erbitux & RT-done 3/12/09, PEG 2/9/09-7/14/09; ND 6/16. Pet 6/12-no mets except lymph node in neck removed on 6/16. Chyle leak,2nd surg to repair. Dilate esophagus 4/15/10. Clear PET 12/17/10