I'm sorry if I offend you but quite frankly this site is all about helping people that want to be helped and unfortunately you are the only one that wants our help and we can't help you other than some emotional support while you watch him die. It's frustrating to us as well when we know he probably could have been saved and we just don't understand how someone can act like him after this site has helped thousands that wanted to be helped.

Sorry and good luck.

David

Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.