I feel really sorry for you and I can only imagine what it must be like having to put up with this irrational behavior. Seldom do we see someone willing to give up without at least going thru the standard rad chemo. I can only think of one since I have been associated with this site and unfortunately he decided to seek Tx after it was to late. It was a little more complicated than that and we all grew to love him but there's was little hope when he finally did srart getting the proper Tx. I don't envy you or him if that's what his final decision is going to be.

David

Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.