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Joined: May 2008 Posts: 551 | Teresa,
Do you have a relationship with Brian's family? Have you considered what will happen after he's gone and they realize you knew what was happening and didn't give them the chance to help and support their son and brother?
I don't think I could support someone in that decision as you are doing. Brian is making an impossible situation even more difficult, and quite frankly, I think the way he's treating you is downright cruel.
Stage IV SCC lt lateral tongue, surgery 5/19/08 (partial gloss/upper neck dissection left side/radial free flap reconstruction) IMRT w/weekly Cisplatin & Erbitux 6/30/08, PEG 1 6/12/08 - out 7/14 (in abdominal wall, not stomach), PEG 2 7/23/08 - out 11/20/08, Tx done 8/18/08
Second SCC tumor, Stage 1, rt mobile tongue, removed 10/18/2016, right neck dissection 12/9/2016
Third SCC tumor, diagnosed, 4/19/2108, rt submandibular mass, HPV-, IMRT w/ weekly Cisplatin, 5/9 - 6/25/2018, PEG 3 5/31/2018
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