Hi Dave, I've been a carer to my hubby who was diagnosed 2 years ago. He has just had a clear CT & PET scan, something that wasn't expected. Hopefully he'll be around for a long time to come. You are really brave, and your mum sounds like a godsend. I am in Melbourne...yep, another Aussie, but with many friends via FB on the other side of the world. Don't know what I would do without the support on this site, and FB - most of my friends on FB are from OCF, and are all loves of my life. To you and @KLO, how do we find you on FB?

Hope you are still doing ok, lots of love being sent your way.

Jeanna

Jeanna
Wife/Carer of Rod, 56, Dx 5/3/09, SCC Oropharnyx T4 N2, End Tx 28th 07/09, 7wks Rad, 3 Cisplatin, primary tonsil, 4cm Lymph right of neck, 1cm left, in jaw & soft palate & base of tongue. Peg 06/09. CT & PET scans 02/11 - NED. Dentures 20/09/11, PEG out 28/10/11.