ohk. sorry i must have read it wrong.

it definitely must help, being in familiar surrounds with people readily available. i was considering the idea of staying in the hospital if i needed treatment again. part of the daily stress was getting in and back everyday. but i guess i wouldn't know until i tried.. being in the hospital even longer each day would be difficult as well.
yeah, she (mum) was unbelieveable. not sure where i'd be if not for her, plus the rest of my family and mates. i'll talk to her about this site tomorrow. i think she'll enjoy having a look around like you said.

take it easy, i'm really tired so i'm off to bed.
i'll check back tomorrow
cheers,
dave