Thanks, I now apprecite more of the everyday and that is what I missed during this whole ordeal was the little things. Deb, I know how you feel. my hubby hit the wall aftr his 3rd week. Does he have a feeding tube? That was a life savor for us. If I can help in any way please let me know. Make sure you take care of yourself too. It is just as hard on us the CG. Keeping you in my prayers. LJ