LJ,

Recovery is a slow process and remember each of us can be different and he still has chemo running through his beat up body so just go with his flow. Believe me HE more than YOU wants this nightmare to end and as soon as he feels better he will let you know. I remember waking up one morning and I just could tell something was better. Not jump on my bike better but a slight improvement. I just felt that I had finally walked out of the tunnel and it slowly got better from then on.

We all share your frustration but just hang in there until it happens to him.

Or you can just shoot him right now and be done with it. LOL

Oh and when he does start to feel better remember that he will still have days that he will think he's going backwards but that's normal to. Those backward days diminish as time goes forward.

David

Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.