Nice to see this thread back in action. Anytime you don't have a good book - either old fashioned paper on your e book,but want to read a 48 page short story collection that started three and half years ago when I was a young 62. just hit page 1 and start reading.
amazing how some things are so common and so just outright strange and others heartbreaking that people say or do the OCF community. I learned so much from you all on how callous and thoughtless comments are our daily bread. But we rise above it
My frustration made me start this thread, your participation has made it the Wikipedia of "Don't you just hate it" for oral cancer IMO .
Charm