I'm going to chime in since I've had one of those days. I remember back to when Neil was diagnosed at stage 4 and a doctor said to us that stage 4 oral cancer is not as bad as stage 4 in other types of cancer. Oh really?

cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.