The victim comment really gets to me. I know your heart Malka, so I know you didn't mean anything offensively however your words are sticking with me and I have to say something.

I am no victim. A victim allows themselves to be victimized and that's not how I roll. I was attacked, ambushed by an enemy and brought to the brink of death. I chose to fight back, to walk through hell to continue being a husband and a father. I lossed my face, my physique, my voice and my career...but I beat this shit and I did it with the most important thing in my life still in tact, my family. Is that a victim? No that's a warrior.