Jerry, thank you. I would love for this guy to be wrong. But he was just so sure about it that it's hard to believe. From reading posts I've been getting a better idea of what questions to ask Dave(I asked to be let into the room when I heard the word biopsy). Dave said as soon as he looked at it he said "that's cancer." As much as I agree in theory about the biopsy I can't imagine he would be that dumb to be that assertive about it if there was any doubt.It is very large and nasty looking.
Leslie was very clear(and helpful) so we are moving forward with Sloan. We are also calling a person who was recommended from Beth Israel(any thoughts on that place?).
Is it odd that we are moving forward without the biopsy? Have most people waited for it?