Dear Christine,

Matt was blessed to have your love to see him through his journey. You are the most amazing caregiver--all heart and strength and courage.

In the quiet moments when all the company is gone and you are feeling his absence the most, please let beautiful memories of Matt's love for you bring you comfort.

You know the times when cancer was doing the speaking. Don't give those times any power in your life. Remember his smile, his gentle touch, his loving words.

Mourn in your own time. Take your time and don't allow anyone to pressure you into taking any steps for which you aren't ready. Be gentle with yourself. I am sending hugs across the miles.

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Love you,
Sandy
xoxox


Ex-spouse MISDIAGNOSED with SCC-HN IVa 12/10. Tonsils out 1/11. 4 teeth out 2/11. TX Erbitux x2, IMRT x2 2/11. 2nd opinion-benign BCC-NOT CANCER 3/11. TX stopped 3/11. New doctors 4/11. ENT agrees with 2nd opinion 5/11. ENT scoped him-all clear 7/11. Ordered MRI anyway. MRI 8/22/11 Result-all clear.