Sandy - you phrased that right on, cancer does take them before their body is ready to let go.... however, his body is defintiely letting him down lately.
I cannot count the falls he has taken. And I fear that he isn't getting adequate care right now with me working, even if I am at home.
He is stubborn and willfull still wanting to do for himself and when he falls or has an accident he gets pi&&ED.
I am not sure what to do, but the hospice social worker comes wednesday and I will get some advice.

CG to my husband, Matt. Dx June 2009 Stage IV Oropharengeal SCC right tonsil primary with distant metastases. Rad to neck- Surgeries to lungs- Every avail chemo - ran out of options Jan 2012, called for hospice help Feb 2012, at rest March 19, 2012.