Dear Christine,
I am SO sorry. I have been away from the OCF boards for awhile and was horrified to read your news about Matt. Your love is so strong and apparent, and he knows you are there with him, even during the not so lucid times. Matt sounds like a strong guy - much like my John. You have done an exemplary job of caregiving - the hardest thing I now realize anyone can do.
Peace and love to you both.
Hugs,


Bonnie

CG to husb John, 57, love of my life for 35 yrs.
Dx 2/10, T2N2cMx, SCC BOT & lymph nodes.
Non smoker. Biopsy HPV+.
No surgery - IMRT 35X + 7 chemos cleared BOT
9/10-mets to lungs.
2 rounds chemo, last one trial drug which did not work.

Lost the battle, but walking in Glory 9/7/11.