As much as I was against the use of lorazepam, I did try this evening. He calmed, took a nap, and woke still a little off, but was caring and affectionate towards the kids and I.
I'll take it! He sat up next to me and hugged me and held my hands. It was the best feeling in the world.

CG to my husband, Matt. Dx June 2009 Stage IV Oropharengeal SCC right tonsil primary with distant metastases. Rad to neck- Surgeries to lungs- Every avail chemo - ran out of options Jan 2012, called for hospice help Feb 2012, at rest March 19, 2012.