That is likely Gabe. I was reading a recommended form for our state and it listed primary POA and secondary POA, he may accept it if both of us are listed.

I just don't know WHEN to talk to him. On the rare occasion that he isn't in a terrible mood, if I talk about anything to do with cancer/dying/doctors, it puts him in a bad mood.

He needs to face this stuff and get it settled NOW.

I will just have to put my foot down.

Thank you all!!! Wish me luck.

CG to my husband, Matt. Dx June 2009 Stage IV Oropharengeal SCC right tonsil primary with distant metastases. Rad to neck- Surgeries to lungs- Every avail chemo - ran out of options Jan 2012, called for hospice help Feb 2012, at rest March 19, 2012.