so, the daughter thing took care of itself today with the oldest, she stopped by to visit...
first of all, he would NOT get up and going today, blew of radiation completely, wouldn't answer the phone, etc...
So daughter comes over in the evening, I am already working my shift in the office (right next to bedroom) I hear her talking to him, then BANG... he had soiled himself in bed, she was trying to assist him up and into fresh clothes, he pulled back not wanting her to touch him, and he fell, yet again. EVERY day he is falling.
Stubborn as a jack*** for sure.
She did stay to get him back to rights and even cleaned the kitchen for me while she was here. Plans on being back on Thurs.
So glad she was here today.