Charm,

You know that you are my Hero. I have a hard time adding to what others have said already. I can understand your worry for Bev. My Allison has been through the ringer time and time again and has never complained or freeked out (at least not in front of me).

Many a time I have sat and listened while some doctor gave me rotten news, all the time looking at that girl on the chair next to mine with her chin up, putting her hand on mine and letting me know in her unspoken way that she would be there for me whatever may come. How can we repay these wonderful women for all they do and all the pain and uncertainty they silently endure?

Anything, and I mean ANYTHING, just give me a call. If Bev wants to talk with Allison and compare notes or just rail against this dreaded disease, let me know and I'll have my girl call your girl.

Kelly
Male
48, SCC (Soft Palet) Rt.,
Stage 1, T3n0m0,
Dx, 8-09, Start IMRT 35 9-2-09 end 10-21-09
04-20-10 NED
8-11 recurrence, node rt. neck N2b
10-11 33 IMRT w/chemo wkly
3-12-12 PET - residual cancer
4-12 5 treatments with Cyberknife & Erbitux
6-19-12 Pet scan CLEAR
12-3-12 PET - CLEAR