I'm so sorry to hear about your recurrence It's not fair that anyone has to face this diagnosis even once, nevermind twice or three times! I feel so much for you and for your wife. It is so scary when things are out of your control. All I can offer for advice is to hold on to hope. Without hope you have nothing. Hang on to eachother, set a game plan for you to both focus on together, and take it one day at a time.
Thinking of you and your wife and sending healing positive thoughts your way.
Amy CG to mom Janet - diag w/ early SCC 8/11-surg w/ rad neck dissect & graft from arm/thigh 9/11-evid in nodes tx 6 wks rads (5/wk) w/cistplatin (1/wk for 6 wks) began 11/11-wk or 2 break 12/11 due to severe side effects-done 1/12- 3/23/12 mets to liver lung bone-hospice 4/7/12-lost fight 4/22/12
It's not fair that anyone has to face this diagnosis even once, nevermind twice or three times! I feel so much for you and for your wife. It is so scary when things are out of your control. All I can offer for advice is to hold on to hope. Without hope you have nothing. Hang on to eachother, set a game plan for you to both focus on together, and take it one day at a time. 
