You are so right Brian.....once the send button was pushed, I realized where I was wrong.

I'm sorry, I was only thinking in the present tense.

This is not at all a gender observation. Only one that I've lost sight of..Dennis is male, my husband, and I don't have a clue how to wake him up the life around his family.

Mandi

Husband diagnosed with stage III tonsil and floor of mouth cancer in August 2002. Three rounds of chemo/42 RAD treatments. Upper right lung lobectomy in March 2003. (Benign)