No, Minnie, I didn't think you were judging at all. Before this happened to my husband, I used to look at women (and men) and wonder what in the world was the matter with them for being so weak? Maybe, that's the lesson I was supposed to learn from all this. Spouses of alcoholics are not weak.........most often they are the stronger of the two, but feeling responsible for everything, can sometimes leave you so confused and tired, that you idle, instead of run.
Love,
Mandi
Love,
Mandi
