Dear Mandi,
I have said this before but until you get to an Alanon meeting you will never understand the disease of alcoholism. Your husband has it. I am so sorry for what you are going through but no tantrums or tears are going to change him. You are just making yourself miserable.....for nothing. It is a DISEASE and you can't cure it!
I'm sorry, Mandi, but that is the way it is.
God Bless,
Judy U
Am delighted about the scan results tho!