Manid, sending you and the boys HUGE HUGS!!!!! I hav been offline for a bit while we coped with the holiday, doctor appts & treatment plans. I hope the intervention did some good but no matter, you have taken positive steps for you and the boys. You cannot change your husband, you cannot stop his drinking - he is the only one that can do that.
Hang in there and keep us updated. There are obviously a LOT of people here who care what happens to you and your family!
Our Story: http://hncancer.com Husband: Mike, age 62 SCC soft palate, Stage IVa, [T2 N2c M0] Diagnosed 4/16/01, Palatectomy, Partial Pharyngectomy, Comprehensive Radical Left Neck Dissection 7/25/01, 30 Radiation treatments 9/10/01, Recurrent SCC Right Lymph Nodes 11/6/03, starting IMRT 12/29/03 & Cisplatin 12/30/03
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