Hello Michelle,

After reading all the responses to your original post I don't know how to say what I want to say!!

You, Shane and Cole deserve to be treated like the decent people you are. I don't believe anything you do short of leaving him will wake him up. I have been married 32 years to a wonderful woman and I can't fathom treating her or my kids the way Dennis is treating you and his boys. Remember you are a very strong woman!!! If you keep letting him beat you down I'm afraid of
what it will do to you long term. I am just an ordinary guy who has been watching this go on for far to long. It's your decision and I will respect whatever decision you make. It kills me to see you and your boys suffer like you are!!!

You have helped me through my journey more than anyone else. I love you for that. Step back and take a good look at what your going thru. Is it worth it? You deserve nothing but the best!!!!

Love Ya, Danny Boy


Daniel Bogan DX 7/16/03 Right tonsil,SCC T4NOMO. right side neck disection, IMRT Radiation x 33.

Recurrance in June 05 in right tonsil area. Now receiving palliative chemo (Erbitux) starting 3/9/06

Our good friend and loved member of the forum has passed away RIP Dannyboy 7-16-2006