Dear Mandi,
You are getting a lot of good advice here. I agree that some physical separation might be the only solution. I am still backing Alanon......reread what Gary had to say.....I start each day with the Serenity Prayer and somedays I start each HOUR with it! wink
I hate to see your marriage fall apart but it's time to put you and the boys first.
God bless you and we love you,
Judy U

Judy U
Stage I SCC floor of mouth, left radical neck dissection 8/03