released after 3 days. no brain scans just nutrition. He had a sign on his door about a falling risk. When we got home, he almost fell after getting out of the car. He caught himself but i would like to know why this is happening. I am to call tomorrow to find out how to get into the portal set up on him through the hospital and cancer center so I can see more information.

my son says someone needs to make him do the feeding tube and I said, you can't make a person do something they don't want to do. It's up to him to get over his controlling/prideful nature and do this the right way.

I am going to follow up on extending the disability. He won't be back to work Oct 19th.

Meanwhile, my amazing friends are taking care of me and I have gotten long hours of sleep the past few days. My blood sugar is coming down and blood pressure better. I'm a bit of a health nut but this stress has taken a toll on my body.


Spouse of 58 yr old with BOT cancer
Stage 4a HPV16 positive
3 chemo treatments cisplantin
35 radiation treatments 7000 cGy
former smoker/chewed tobacco for 38 yrs.
1/2020 diagnosed with cancer near TMJ
4/2020 chemo 5 days every 2 weeks
6/2020 proton therapy
9/21/2020 cancer free