thank you Christine. It has been worse than I expected and even husband said he has alzheimers. It does remind me of dementia in that one moment, he has clear thinking and the next, totally off track.

My daughter hid all the keys and she even hid away his gun shells (it's hunting season) because he has lots of rifles in the bedroom with him. She said it made her feel safer to know he doesn't have access to questionable stuff right now.

Spouse of 58 yr old with BOT cancer
Stage 4a HPV16 positive
3 chemo treatments cisplantin
35 radiation treatments 7000 cGy
former smoker/chewed tobacco for 38 yrs.
1/2020 diagnosed with cancer near TMJ
4/2020 chemo 5 days every 2 weeks
6/2020 proton therapy
9/21/2020 cancer free