Thank you for sharing that with us, shantueausrfighting, I cannot imagine how painful it was for you to come here to say that, and it definitely needed saying.

When I got the news of my "upgrade" from Stage IV to Stage IVc, I did all those things for my prospective widow, and traded my new POV for a much cheaper one and a large check for the difference which I put into savings for her.

I can't say how sad it is to hear how you are getting cheated out of his life insurance. My heart goes out to you, along with my admiration for the strength you show in this post.

Thanks you very much, Brave Lady!

Bart

My intro: http://oralcancersupport.org/forums/ubbt...3644#Post163644

09/09 - Dx OC Stg IV
10/09 - Chemo/3 Cisplatin, 40 rad
11/09 - PET CLEAN
07/11 - Dx Stage IV C. (Liver)
06/12 - PET CLEAN
09/12 - PET Dist Met (Liver)
04/13 - PET CLEAN
06/13 - PET Dist Met (Liver + 1 lymph node)
10/13 - PET - Xeloda ineffective
11/13 - Liver packed w/ SIRI-Spheres
02/14 - PET - Siri-Spheres effective, 4cm tumor in lymph-node
03/15 - Begin 15 Rads
03/24 - Final Rad! Woot!
7/27/14 Bart passed away. RIP!