I agree with most of the comments here, and certainly everyone has good intentions, which isn't in doubt. You know what they say about the road to hell...

I actually spent a fair bit of time reading various threads before jumping in so I could get a flavour. Plus I'm a pushy broad, a lawyer, a taurus and born under the sign of the ox, so really, it's impossible to intimidate me.

I will pass on to Heather the general thoughts here, so she knows where things are at in hopes she will return. For those who are interested, her husband came through surgery well, and is awaiting his chemo/rad series. He is, in fact, back at work at this time.