Personally, I think those two were a little over the top with thier reactions. You must learn to listen with an open mind and understand that not all information recieved here is good for your individual situation. It is a shame they got mad and took thier ball home (I know there's a saying about that), but at the same time those speaking on this forum have alot of info to give and they should have stucdk around to find out more. Even a little sliver that sticks with you is better than nothing. Maybe it was just too much of emotional roller coaster for them.


Bette/CG to husband Reggie 66

dx 1: SCC Soft Palate (12/06)
tx: chemo and rad

dx 2: SCC 6 cm tum rt. vocal chord (12/09)
tx: total laryngectomy with stoma, 2 nodes

dx 3: SCC 4 cm tum BOT (10/16/12)
Tx: partial gloss w/ mod deck dis 4 nodes incl. part. pharyngectomy