Charm...you and your sidekick are incorrigable.You just love to poke your sticks into a hornets nest and see what you can stir up lol.I think your question was quite a legitimate one and i answered in all good faith.Yes the throw away at the end was a british attempt at humour,but i do remember the days when i was fraught and frazzled and you and buggar lugs wound me up something rotten.

Strong minded,self confident even arrogant men you are but sometimes a little short on the tact and diplomacy gene,and unquestionably intolerant of alternative opinions and behaviour to your own.

All that said as you say there is a place for all on OCF as long as lines aren't stepped over.

love liz