I've set Matt up a log in and book marked it for him. I find the site to be such a valuable tool during this battle and wish that he would reach out to everyone.
The reasons he wont use it are unknown to me.
Perhaps he hates to type?

CG to my husband, Matt. Dx June 2009 Stage IV Oropharengeal SCC right tonsil primary with distant metastases. Rad to neck- Surgeries to lungs- Every avail chemo - ran out of options Jan 2012, called for hospice help Feb 2012, at rest March 19, 2012.