Nelie - it really is horrible that someone you care about so much has shown themselves to be so cold and disrespectful. There are no excuses for what's he's done and how he's done it.Sounds like there is a lot going on that has nothing at all to do with you.

I agree with Vin who said you have always answered questions and made comments on this site that illustrate, plain and simple, what a wonderful and loving person you are.

You are sure carrying more than your fair share of all different kinds of pain right now. Hoping, when you are ready, that you feel that speck of light and wisdom that is in all of us, get stronger and help you move forward.

Thank you for all the help and warmth you have given to me and everyone who participates in this forum.

Mary